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Addiction Isn’t About Substances

Here’s what it really is — The descent into substance use disorder is a lonely path to a dark place of isolation, disconnection and desperation. Words cannot accurately capture, convey or contain the level of pain felt by those of us so afflicted. It can be easy to look at someone with a substance use disorder…

Addiction

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Addiction Isn’t About Substances
Addiction Isn’t About Substances
Addiction

5 min read


Nov 18

How to Harness the Power of Everyday A.W.E.

A Potent Mindfulness Technique to Expand Beyond Your Ego — If you could level out a negative mood, regulate volatile emotions or quiet an anxious mind in just a minute of mindfulness each day, would you do it? No, this isn’t an infomercial. A few years ago, psychotherapist and mindfulness expert Jake Eagle and pain management specialist Dr. …

Mindfulness

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How to Harness the Power of Everyday A.W.E.
How to Harness the Power of Everyday A.W.E.
Mindfulness

7 min read


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Invisible Illness

·Nov 14

Your Approval Required

5 Evidence-Based Techniques to [begin to] Stop People Pleasing — Seeking: Validation and conditional acceptance based on most recent acts Candidate: Expert workplace politician; never satisfied with achievements; inconsistent distribution of praise; narcissists welcome Client [me]: Eager to please, always says yes, no boundaries I might as well have spent my teens, 20s, and 30s carrying this farcical job description…

Psychology

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Your Approval Required
Your Approval Required
Psychology

11 min read


Nov 13

Give Yourself Credit for Showing Up

It’s Much Easier to Just Check Out — There are a million ways to check out. Pick a screen, any screen. Distractions are calling, and they promise relief. It’s tempting to be anywhere but right here, right now. Depending on where you look, “now” can be a very scary place. War(s), mass shootings, corporate fraud, social injustice, political…

Presence

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Give Yourself Credit for Showing Up
Give Yourself Credit for Showing Up
Presence

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About Me Stories

·Oct 30

About Me — Russ W

Surviving and Thriving Despite My Best Attempts to Self-Destruct — Hello, friend. Thanks for sharing a moment of your time. I’m Russ. I’m a 42-year-old Californian living in NYC. People always ask me how I ended up on the East Coast. I suppose I wanted to run away. You could say I’m good at running. It seems to be a…

About Me

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About Me — Russ W
About Me — Russ W
About Me

12 min read


Oct 20

The Seduction of Addiction Can Take Anyone Out

Including addiction therapists like me — The line between addiction and recovery can be tenuous and fragile. Though I have years of hard-fought sobriety, I walked right up to the edge of substance use the other week. I stood at the edge of that yawning abyss of nothingness and reveled in a moment of thrill-seeking defiance. …

Addiction

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The Seduction of Addiction Can Take Anyone Out
The Seduction of Addiction Can Take Anyone Out
Addiction

8 min read


Oct 1

More Than Our Mistakes

For the People Pleasers and Validation Seekers — If I’m a master of anything at all, it’s catastrophizing poor performance into evidence of deficiency. It could be the tiniest morsel of a critique hidden in an otherwise glowing performance review. My mind will seize upon that morsel and manifest a mountain of doom. You too? When you’re a…

Mental Health

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More Than Our Mistakes
More Than Our Mistakes
Mental Health

4 min read


Sep 17

To the Alcoholics and Addicts

A Letter of Hope and Strength — This piece is for all the addicts, alcoholics and anyone diagnosed (or yet to be) with substance use disorder. You might not want to admit it yet, but you know who you are. You are not alone. Maybe drunken holiday party antics cost you a job. Maybe you’ve wrapped your…

Addiction

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To the Alcoholics and Addicts
To the Alcoholics and Addicts
Addiction

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Invisible Illness

·Sep 17

My Realtor Triggered My Childhood Trauma

Telling This Secret Helps Me Heal — If there’s one way to ensure you’re not getting my business, it’s to attempt a hard sell. There’s just something about being sold that really sets me off. Granted, most people don’t like being sold. It just pushes me to a different level. I feel personally offended — like it’s…

Mental Health

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My Realtor Triggered My Childhood Trauma
My Realtor Triggered My Childhood Trauma
Mental Health

9 min read


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Invisible Illness

·Sep 5

The Privilege of Being a Therapist

Every Client Inspires Me to Be a Better Version of Myself — I like to say every day is an adventure. Working as an addiction therapist, I never know who or what will cross my path next. Maybe I’ll need to do a call with Child Protective Services (CPS) to advocate for a client; maybe a client will show up drunk to…

Addiction

9 min read

The Privilege of Being a Therapist
The Privilege of Being a Therapist
Addiction

9 min read

Russ W

Russ W

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Addiction therapist with an alphabet soup of degrees. Writer. Creative. Human. Hit me up: russ.w.medium@gmail.com

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